Monday, January 11, 2016

Downsides of female led relationships and being a house husband

Today I stumbled upon a blog on Female Led Relationships. I think that is the word you would describe my relationship with my wife. She wears the pants in our house and I'm wearing the skirt sometimes. I do have an opinion but I respect my wife's opinion more than my own.

Today I want to say what I think of the some downsides of a Female-led based relationship and a House Husband. It can be MUNDANE. Its a very ordinary life and lonely life as most of the times your only connection to the outside world is your significant other. I usually only see my wife in the morning and at night as she works full time. 

Sometimes I feel vulnerable as a result as my weakness. How do I know my wife is not cheating on me or what if she leaves me for someone else ? I feel like that would be a nightmare scenario as I would have nothing. My only job right now as a house husband is to keep the house clean and organized, cook, do laundry and to be a loving husband. When she is not in a good mood, I listen to her complain without responding back. When she is feeling tired, I offer her massages. Our relationship has many things that have nothing to do with steamy, k.i.n.k.y  .s.e.x .  Yes, there are moments of explicit love making, and sensual actions. I will talk more about this in another blog post. 

Basically being a house husband in a female led house for the husband is a bit like modern day slavery. You get used to it and it is a way of life, from morning to evening.  It encompasses the entire spectrum of human existence and is not fleshed out merely in fantastical scenes.