Wife wants me to clean the house

Labor day weekend was good. Had a blast with the Wife. We went to the beach and for a nice walk.

Also we talked about her house and some changes. She feels that I am not doing enough house work and that I should do more to contribute. In other words she wants me to vacuum the carpets, wipe the counters and tables every day. Also she expects me to do the laundry every time the basket is full. Also she wants me to cook lunch and dinner 7 days a week. Sometimes she will even call or email me what she would like for dinner. She loves Pad Thai and Chinese food.

I dont know what else to do even though I dont agree to it completely. All these changes would basically mean I'm a full time domestic help. But I love her and and she is the bread winner in our family so I agree to it.

I offer to help my wife in the morning and evenings

I feel like a failure and useless. My head hurts. 

I ask my wife if I can help her by offering to cook her breakfast and iron her clothes in the morning. I also offer to drive her to work and back. She is delighted and says that would be wonderful.