Got my xmas gift from Victorias Secret

I got my Christmas gift from my wife. It was a matching Bra and Panties from Victoria Secret, purple in color and sized 36B.

She forced me to wear them today. I had to wear a looser fitting shirt and something not white so the bra would not be see thru. And I wore jeans which were fine over the panties. It is the silky type so was bit slippery over my jeans but felt good compared to my regular cotton briefs.

For the afternoon we went out to the mall for some shopping and then went to a mexican restaurant for dinner. The whole time I felt a bit self conscious but I dont think anyone noticed the bra aside from a few women who did double takes at my chest.

Tights are great for keeping the legs warm during the winter

We are back home, the weather has become a bit cold. I had to take a few pictures of the Mrs.

What do you think ? Should I take some more pictures ?

We are in LA November 2017

We are vacationing in Los Angeles this week. The wife gave me a budget of $4000 and so I booked our airfare, hotels and a car rental. The hotel is beautiful with a in-room hot tub. It might come in handy in the evening, if I need to give my wife a bath. She likes it when I massage her and rub her back while in the shower.

During the day, we are hoping to go to Disney and Universal Studios. Also hoping to see Hollywood Blvd and the Walk of the Stars. 

Wife got a new JOB and Pay Raise - Time to celebrate

So its been a while since my last update. My wife got a new job and it's been chaotic. She is now working for the local state in government job as a External Manager. She got a pay raise as well. Her new position pays $110,000 annual plus benefits.

These are some of her job responsibilities
-Manages and promotes the City's partnerships with key external agencies thru regular strategic planning, engagement and communication.
-Builds and maintains a network of key stakeholders, and establishes communication protocols.
-Identifies opportunities for collaborative and strategic approaches.
-Serves as a resource for executive management and senior leadership, and conducts research and prepares policy statements on a wide range of topics.
-Analyzes the impacts of policy set forth by the City and its external partners.
-Develops and distributes strategic plans, policy documents, and communicatory materials to the City Council, City Management, City staff and external agencies.
-Oversees expenditures and revenues to ensure funds are being spent in accordance with program guidelines.

Downsides of female led relationships and being a house husband

Today I stumbled upon a blog on Female Led Relationships. I think that is the word you would describe my relationship with my wife. She wears the pants in our house and I'm wearing the skirt sometimes. I do have an opinion but I respect my wife's opinion more than my own.

Today I want to say what I think of the some downsides of a Female-led based relationship and a House Husband. It can be MUNDANE. Its a very ordinary life and lonely life as most of the times your only connection to the outside world is your significant other. I usually only see my wife in the morning and at night as she works full time. 

Sometimes I feel vulnerable as a result as my weakness. How do I know my wife is not cheating on me or what if she leaves me for someone else ? I feel like that would be a nightmare scenario as I would have nothing. My only job right now as a house husband is to keep the house clean and organized, cook, do laundry and to be a loving husband. When she is not in a good mood, I listen to her complain without responding back. When she is feeling tired, I offer her massages. Our relationship has many things that have nothing to do with steamy, k.i.n.k.y  .s.e.x .  Yes, there are moments of explicit love making, and sensual actions. I will talk more about this in another blog post. 

Basically being a house husband in a female led house for the husband is a bit like modern day slavery. You get used to it and it is a way of life, from morning to evening.  It encompasses the entire spectrum of human existence and is not fleshed out merely in fantastical scenes.

Wife wants me to clean the house

Labor day weekend was good. Had a blast with the Wife. We went to the beach and for a nice walk.

Also we talked about her house and some changes. She feels that I am not doing enough house work and that I should do more to contribute. In other words she wants me to vacuum the carpets, wipe the counters and tables every day. Also she expects me to do the laundry every time the basket is full. Also she wants me to cook lunch and dinner 7 days a week. Sometimes she will even call or email me what she would like for dinner. She loves Pad Thai and Chinese food.

I dont know what else to do even though I dont agree to it completely. All these changes would basically mean I'm a full time domestic help. But I love her and and she is the bread winner in our family so I agree to it.

I offer to help my wife in the morning and evenings

I feel like a failure and useless. My head hurts. 

I ask my wife if I can help her by offering to cook her breakfast and iron her clothes in the morning. I also offer to drive her to work and back. She is delighted and says that would be wonderful.